It’s that time of year when you’re packing up the Christmas decorations, finishing off the mince pies – and wondering where to put that gift.
Whether we like to admit it, or not, most of us will have received a few unwanted gifts at Christmas. Because however well-meaning, there are bound to be a few presents that didn’t quite hit the mark.
And this creates a dilemma. What should you do with unwanted gifts?
Ditch the guilt
Let’s be clear. You can be truly grateful for the kind thought which the gift symbolises, but that doesn’t mean you must keep it. At a time when most of us have more things that we will ever need, it is illogical to hold onto unwanted gifts out of a sense of guilt. Research shows that cluttered space can leave you feeling stressed, anxious and even depressed, so dealing with unwanted gifts is an act of self-care.
Does it spark joy?
This simple question is at the heart of the globally influential KonMari Method™️, created by Marie Kondo. In this approach, we are encouraged to consider each item in our space and ask ourselves – “Does it spark joy?” If the answer is yes, we keep it. If it’s a no, we let it go, with gratitude.
We can apply this method to unwanted Christmas gifts. So, thank the unwanted gift for the kind thought behind it, then mindfully let it go, for someone else to enjoy and use.
Options for unwanted gifts
1. Be honest
You may want to gently explain to the giver that you don’t intend to keep their gift. It’s often best to be honest, especially with close friends and family. They may be able to return it for you, or even choose to keep it themselves!
2. Share it
This is an ideal option if your unwanted gift is food or drink with a “best before” date. Don’t leave that bottle of liqueur or wine in the back of the cupboard to gather dust. Take it along to your next party for the other guests to enjoy.
3. Regift it
Is there someone in your world who would love to receive this item? Re-wrapped, your unwanted Christmas gift could be transformed into a much loved birthday or Mother’s Day present.
4. Donate it
Does your school or church have an upcoming fundraiser? Your unwanted Christmas gift could make a perfect raffle prize. Alternatively, your local charity shop will be very grateful to receive brand new items, to sell to raise money for their good cause.
5. Return it
You might want to consider returning or exchanging your gift, if you know where it was bought. This is a great solution if it’s a clothing item in the wrong size or colour. Some stores have an extended returns period over Christmas, and even if you don’t have a receipt they may provide your with a credit note. Check the policies for individual shops.
Bonus tip – Next time you are buying a present, ask for a gift receipt and include it with your gift – just in case.
6. Sell it
If your unwanted gift is valuable, you could sell it. Vinted is a good option for clothes, shoes or accessories. For other items, look at eBay or Facebook Marketplace. Be sensitive about whether the person who gave you the gift is likely to see your ad.
Final thoughts
We are all trying to reduce our impact on the planet. By finding a new home for an unwanted gift, we can use our resources more thoughtfully.
